It always amuses me, even though it's frustrating, to see people who aren't remotely in a position to do so feeling so free to be judgemental about how other people are put together and live their lives.
You see, the problem isn't that you're a female gay, I've met them, met more male lesbians, but I'm cool with all that. Transgender. Heteroflexible. Homoflexible. Bisexual. That's great. More power to them. The problem is you intentionally mislead me in order to play holier-than-thou. The problem is you're not the most persecuted thing on the block, and you're not the best educated in gender politics. The problem is you don't have the self esteem to be able to admit when you're wrong. When you get past that problem, you'll start feeling a whole lot less persecuted, even if people are persecuting you, because you'll have yourself. From the way you're being dodgy and trying to build up delusions of people having attacked you for your gender identity today rather than for the fact that you pretty much lied and were more or less a jerk, it's clear you have no idea where you stand with yourself at all. Grow up, wo/man. This is weak. As for me: unless I get an apology, I'm out, and I won't respond to anything on this matter again. I have no respect for you whatsoever at this moment.
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Date: 2004-02-18 02:40 am (UTC)You see, the problem isn't that you're a female gay, I've met them, met more male lesbians, but I'm cool with all that. Transgender. Heteroflexible. Homoflexible. Bisexual. That's great. More power to them. The problem is you intentionally mislead me in order to play holier-than-thou. The problem is you're not the most persecuted thing on the block, and you're not the best educated in gender politics. The problem is you don't have the self esteem to be able to admit when you're wrong. When you get past that problem, you'll start feeling a whole lot less persecuted, even if people are persecuting you, because you'll have yourself. From the way you're being dodgy and trying to build up delusions of people having attacked you for your gender identity today rather than for the fact that you pretty much lied and were more or less a jerk, it's clear you have no idea where you stand with yourself at all. Grow up, wo/man. This is weak. As for me: unless I get an apology, I'm out, and I won't respond to anything on this matter again. I have no respect for you whatsoever at this moment.