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Oct. 31st, 2011 10:48 pm
Dear many girls and women:
Just because a guy gets a boner for you doesn't mean you have any actual power over him. Your twat is not kryptonite.
If you want to feel truly powerful, stay in school, get a good job and achieve financial independence that has nothing to do with something as fragile as what you look like.
Because trust me, if you make it to 40 and the only thing you have going for you is that your formerly perky tits used to please shallow men? You're screwed. And not in a fun way.
If you want to fuck around like a crazed weasel because you enjoy it, please do. I will cheer you on every step of the way. But if you're tarting up primarily because it makes you feel in control? Don't. Because you're not.
Sincerely,
Been There
P.S. The same goes for women who think they can marry into power and then just sit back and play wifey while he takes care of everything. Several million divorcées struggling with money and single parenthood would beg to differ. Being a kept woman--whether for sex or domestic duty or both--is no longer a woman's only or best career option. Pick something else, or expect life to suck ass when you're older.
If you want to feel truly powerful, stay in school, get a good job and achieve financial independence that has nothing to do with something as fragile as what you look like.
Because trust me, if you make it to 40 and the only thing you have going for you is that your formerly perky tits used to please shallow men? You're screwed. And not in a fun way.
If you want to fuck around like a crazed weasel because you enjoy it, please do. I will cheer you on every step of the way. But if you're tarting up primarily because it makes you feel in control? Don't. Because you're not.
Sincerely,
Been There
P.S. The same goes for women who think they can marry into power and then just sit back and play wifey while he takes care of everything. Several million divorcées struggling with money and single parenthood would beg to differ. Being a kept woman--whether for sex or domestic duty or both--is no longer a woman's only or best career option. Pick something else, or expect life to suck ass when you're older.
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